{"id":107527,"date":"2025-03-17T13:49:23","date_gmt":"2025-03-17T13:49:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=107527"},"modified":"2025-03-17T13:50:33","modified_gmt":"2025-03-17T13:50:33","slug":"dhe-pyes-veten-pse-ma-fyen-patriotizmin-nje-shenim-reflaktimi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/2025\/03\/17\/dhe-pyes-veten-pse-ma-fyen-patriotizmin-nje-shenim-reflaktimi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u2026dhe pyes veten, pse ma fyen patriotizmin? Nj\u00eb sh\u00ebnim reflektimi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pranvera SHEHAJ<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00eb<\/span> m\u00ebkuar<\/span> me <\/span>legjendat<\/span> e <\/span>trim\u00ebris\u00eb<\/span>,<\/span> ato<\/span> q\u00eb<\/span> p\u00ebrshkojn\u00eb<\/span> deri<\/span>von\u00eb<\/span> edhe<\/span> flet\u00ebt<\/span> e <\/span>librave<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> shkollimit<\/span> m\u00eb<\/span> shum\u00eb<\/span> se<\/span> normat<\/span>dhe<\/span> rregullat<\/span> e <\/span>nj\u00ebtrajtshm\u00ebris\u00eb<\/span> shoq\u00ebrore<\/span>, <\/span>nuk<\/span> k<\/span>a <\/span>sesi<\/span> n<\/span>e <\/span>shqiptar\u00ebt<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> mos<\/span> rritemi<\/span> e <\/span>mbesim<\/span> peng<\/span> i <\/span>ndjesive<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span>rr\u00ebnjosura<\/span> n\u00eb<\/span> n\u00ebnvet\u00ebdijen<\/span> njer\u00ebzore<\/span> si<\/span> dashuria<\/span> fataliste<\/span>, <\/span>urrejtja<\/span> e <\/span>pakthyeshme<\/span>, <\/span>hakmarrja<\/span> e <\/span>p\u00ebrbetuar<\/span>, <\/span>vet\u00ebflijimi<\/span> n\u00eb<\/span>em\u00ebr<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> krenaris\u00eb<\/span> e <\/span>t\u00eb<\/span> tjera<\/span> ndjenja<\/span> n\u00eb<\/span> kufijt\u00eb<\/span> e <\/span>irracionales<\/span> q\u00eb<\/span>n\u00eb<\/span> syt\u00eb<\/span> e<\/span> kujtdo<\/span> tjet\u00ebr<\/span> do <\/span>t\u00eb<\/span> ishin<\/span> vet\u00ebm<\/span> sindroma<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> gjakut<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span>nxeht\u00eb<\/span>. Me <\/span>gjith\u00eb<\/span> detyrimet<\/span> her\u00eb<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> natyrshme<\/span> e <\/span>her\u00eb<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span>sforcuara<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> civilizimit<\/span> p\u00ebrtej<\/span> Ballkanit<\/span>, ne <\/span>manifestojm\u00eb<\/span> ende<\/span>shum\u00eb<\/span> prej<\/span> tyre<\/span>, por <\/span>asgj\u00eb<\/span> nuk<\/span> rreh<\/span> gjoksin<\/span> e <\/span>krenaris\u00eb<\/span> m\u00eb<\/span>shum\u00eb<\/span> se <\/span>Pa<\/span>triotizmi<\/span>. <\/span>Frut<\/span> i<\/span> forc\u00ebs<\/span> son\u00eb<\/span> p\u00ebr<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> mos<\/span> harruar<\/span>, apo i <\/span>dashuris\u00eb<\/span> p\u00ebr<\/span> ta<\/span> jetuar<\/span> atdheun<\/span> si <\/span>t\u00eb<\/span> begat\u00eb<\/span>? <\/span>N<\/span>\u00eb<\/span>mendimin<\/span> tim<\/span>, <\/span>n\u00eb<\/span> qoft\u00eb<\/span> e para, <\/span>patriotizm<\/span>i<\/span> yn\u00eb<\/span> ngrihet<\/span> mbi<\/span>ndjenj\u00ebn<\/span> e <\/span>dhimbjes<\/span>, <\/span>e <\/span>n\u00eb<\/span> qoft\u00eb<\/span> e <\/span>dyta<\/span>, <\/span>ai <\/span>ngrihet<\/span> mbi<\/span> ndjenj<\/span>\u00ebn<\/span>e <\/span>shpres\u00ebs<\/span>.<\/span><\/p>\n

Lufta<\/span> e <\/span>Kosov\u00ebs<\/span> n\u00eb<\/span> kujtes\u00ebn<\/span> time <\/span>t\u00eb<\/span> p\u00ebrjet<\/span>imit<\/span> \u00ebsht\u00eb<\/span> vet\u00ebm<\/span>fotografike<\/span> n\u00eb<\/span> mendjen<\/span> e <\/span>nj\u00eb<\/span> vajze<\/span> pes\u00eb<\/span> vje\u00e7are<\/span>, <\/span>at\u00ebher\u00eb<\/span> kur<\/span>n<\/span>j\u00eb<\/span> prej<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> af\u00ebrmve<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span> mi<\/span> hapi<\/span> dyert<\/span> p\u00ebr<\/span> nj\u00eb<\/span> familje<\/span> shqiptar<\/span>e<\/span> t\u00eb<\/span>Kosov\u00ebs<\/span> prej<\/span> n\u00ebnt\u00eb<\/span> an\u00ebtar\u00ebsh<\/span>, e <\/span>ku<\/span> b<\/span>\u00ebr\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb sht\u00ebpis\u00eb, ata bujt\u00ebn edhe tek ne n\u00eb Vlor\u00eb. Kujtesa sigurisht nuk mbeti vet\u00ebm e till\u00eb, por u mbrujt me gjith\u00eb kemi d\u00ebshmuar e njohur ne shqiptar\u00ebt p\u00ebr lot\u00ebt e tok\u00ebs son\u00eb <\/span>t<\/span>\u00eb p\u00ebrtej kufirit nd\u00ebr shekuj. P\u00ebr asnj\u00eb popull a shtet nuk pata ushqyer <\/span>me vet\u00ebdije <\/span>ndjenja t\u00eb urrejtjes m\u00eb shum\u00eb sesa p\u00ebr vras\u00ebsit e bashk\u00ebkombasve t\u00eb mi<\/span>, <\/span>\u00e7ka <\/span>shtroi rrug\u00ebn e <\/span>\u00e7allmave<\/span> t\u00eb par<\/span>a<\/span> t\u00eb patriotizmit t\u00eb ngritur mbi rr\u00ebnojat e dhimbjes s\u00eb <\/span>rr\u00ebfyer.<\/span><\/p>\n

V<\/span>ite m\u00eb pas, studente n\u00eb universitetin e Trentos n\u00eb Itali, do t\u00eb isha protagoniste e nj\u00eb episodi ku ky patriotiz\u00ebm i ngritur mbi dhimbjen m\u00eb mbyti <\/span>forc\u00ebn n\u00eb nj\u00eb or\u00eb leksioni<\/span>. Kursi quhej <\/span>\u201cNd\u00ebrtimi i shtetit dhe kombit\u201d (State and Nation building)<\/span>. Ishte radha e diskutimit t\u00eb historis\u00eb s\u00eb shtetformimeve n\u00eb Ballkan, Serbia p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb, Kosova p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb. Profesori e dinte se isha shqiptare, un\u00eb modestisht studentja m\u00eb aktive gjat\u00eb leksionit, ai nj\u00eb prej profesor\u00ebve m\u00eb interesant\u00eb n\u00eb shpjegim. <\/span>E nisi shpjegimin me t\u00eb panjohura rreth <\/span>historis\u00eb s\u00eb <\/span>Serbis\u00eb, por m\u00eb p\u00ebrplasi duke m\u00eb par\u00eb n\u00eb sy<\/span> – si p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar aprovim a kund\u00ebrshti, –<\/span> shum\u00eb\u00e7ka un\u00eb si shqiptare nuk <\/span>mund t\u00eb pranoja <\/span>p\u00ebr Kosov\u00ebn, ndryshimin e popullsis\u00eb sipas tij, betej\u00ebn e <\/span>1389-\u00ebs<\/span>, etj. Sot kujtoj se e nd\u00ebrpreva tri her\u00eb radhazi<\/span>,<\/span> pa marr\u00eb leje duke i th\u00ebn\u00eb vet\u00ebm \u201cNon \u00e8 vero\u201d. T\u00eb kat\u00ebrt\u00ebn her\u00eb, marr fjal\u00ebn duke nisur t\u2019i shpjegoj t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetat e mia, t\u00eb v\u00ebrtetat tona rreth Kosov\u00ebs dhe masakrave serbe mbi tok\u00ebn shqiptare, nd\u00ebrsa ai m\u00eb nd\u00ebrpret duke m\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb: ti i referohesh historis\u00eb t\u00ebnde, un\u00eb dy akademik\u00ebve italian\u00eb<\/span> jasht\u00eb konfliktit.<\/span> L<\/span>ot\u00ebt e <\/span>mbytur<\/span> m\u00eb mbyt\u00ebn po aq fuqin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2018i <\/span>v\u00ebrtetuar<\/span> lobizmin e fuqish\u00ebm serb p\u00ebr shkrimin e rrem\u00eb t\u00eb historis\u00eb p\u00ebrtej bot\u00ebs serbe. <\/span>Leksioni<\/span> p\u00ebrfundoi me at\u00eb diskutim,<\/span> nd\u00ebrsa un\u00eb, e humbur, braktisa m\u00eb <\/span>pas<\/span> \u00e7do or\u00eb leksioni<\/span> t\u00eb tij. <\/span>\u00c7<\/span>\u2018<\/span>m\u00eb pengoi t\u00eb luftoja qoft\u00eb dhe pak<\/span> m\u00eb tej<\/span> p\u00ebr t<\/span>\u2018<\/span>ia rr\u00ebzuar propagand\u00ebn e mashtrimit nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar? Me siguri, verb\u00ebria e mendimit shkaktuar nga patriotizmi i dhimbjes.<\/span><\/p>\n

Prej disa muajsh, por kulmuar mbr\u00ebm\u00eb, <\/span>p\u00ebrjet<\/span>oj<\/span> nj\u00eb sprov\u00eb t\u00eb tronditjes s\u00eb <\/span>patriotizmit<\/span>, krejt e ndryshme, <\/span>e<\/span> llojit q\u00eb p\u00ebrkundrazi, m\u00eb intimidon, m\u00eb struk n\u00eb pafuqi<\/span>. <\/span>Si erdhi vall\u00eb kjo dit\u00eb kur intimidohem teksa shoh e d\u00ebgjoj nj\u00eb lajm p\u00ebr <\/span>ta<\/span> n\u00eb titra e kronika t\u00eb politik\u00ebs nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare<\/span>?<\/span> Sheshi i Beogradit i mbushur n\u00eb at\u00eb masivitet sa rrezatonte nj\u00eb unison ndri\u00e7imi m\u00eb dor\u00ebzoi<\/span>, andaj as<\/span> i shp\u00ebrfilla<\/span> dot<\/span>, <\/span>as<\/span> i urreva<\/span> dot<\/span>, <\/span>por <\/span>iu dor\u00ebzova t\u00eb drejt\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre <\/span>legjitime <\/span>p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb <\/span>m\u00ebsim <\/span>demokracie.<\/span> Student\u00ebt serb\u00eb sh\u00ebnjuan<\/span> mediat nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare me foto t\u00eb mbishkruara si turma m\u00eb e madhe e protestuesve kund\u00ebr presidentit n\u00eb dekada <\/span>(The Guardian)<\/span>. Masivitet kund\u00ebr nj\u00eb autokrati, demaskim i nj\u00eb sistemi ekonomik krolimi i t\u00eb cilit pamund\u00ebson hij\u00ebzimin e<\/span> mang\u00ebsive<\/span>t\u00eb demokracis\u00eb, k\u00ebrkes\u00eb p\u00ebr liri zgjedhjeje<\/span>, trysni e pandalur ndaj p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit t\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebrpos kurban\u00ebve t\u00eb deritanish\u00ebm t\u00eb qeveris\u00eb serbe. <\/span><\/p>\n

Shteti dhe populli q\u00eb n\u00eb historin\u00eb e Ballkanit mbart si makthe t\u00eb zeza m\u00ebkatet e masakrave njer\u00ebzore, sot po jep n\u00eb rajon nj\u00eb leksion masiv demokracie. Patriotizmi i dhimbjes nuk ishte i fort\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm sa p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos e pranuar me z\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb dob\u00ebsin\u00eb q\u00eb ndjeva si shqiptare<\/span>. E sfidoi at\u00eb si shuplak\u00eb nd\u00ebshkimi patriotizmi i shpres\u00ebs s\u00eb student\u00ebve dhe qytetar\u00ebve serb\u00eb. T\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat kushte politike, t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebt profile autokrat\u00ebsh, skamje d\u00ebshp\u00ebruese ekonomike n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, shum\u00eb m\u00eb e zbardhur situata ekonomike n\u00eb Serbi, Beogradi prej muajsh <\/span>uturim\u00eb e protestave p\u00ebr ndryshim, Tirana nj\u00eb simbol i zbraz\u00ebtis\u00eb s\u00eb forc\u00ebs n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn q\u00ebndrestar\u00ebt e nj\u00eb partie opozitare nuk mjaftojn\u00eb. Patriotizmi i shpres\u00ebs s\u00eb tyre struk n\u00eb reflektim patriotizmin <\/span>tim t\u00eb<\/span> dhimbjes.<\/span> Prej muajsh, ata po shkruajn\u00eb cop\u00ebzat e k\u00ebtij leksioni force ndaj autokracive moderne, teksa k\u00ebmb\u00ebngulin t\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se edhe ato frigohen, k\u00ebrc\u00ebnohen, p\u00ebr\u00e7arten e me gjasa dor\u00ebzohen.<\/span><\/p>\n

A mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb patriotizmi vet\u00ebm ai i ngritur mbi dhimbjen e s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs dhe fajtor\u00ebt e plag\u00ebve q\u00eb edhe n\u00eb u shoft\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb kujtesa jon\u00eb, gur\u00ebt e kan\u00eb amanet t<\/span>\u2018<\/span>i kujtojn\u00eb? <\/span>Si mund ta duam Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb vet\u00ebm prej dhimbjes<\/span>? <\/span>Dhimbja pllakos, dob\u00ebson, mpin nervin e rebelimit t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm t\u00eb njeriut derisa t\u00eb struk n\u00eb pafuqin\u00eb e dor\u00ebzimit e t\u00eb kthen n\u00eb spektator t\u00eb asaj \u00e7ka t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb zot\u00ebt t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb. Dhimbja nuk mban dot gjall\u00eb patriotiz\u00ebm t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm<\/span> dhe sepse atdheu dikur ka vua<\/span>jtu<\/span>r nuk mjafton p\u00ebr ta dashur, nd\u00ebrsa prangosur n\u00eb plag\u00ebt e s\u00eb shkuar\u00ebs, qorrazi e braktisim at\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb tashmen dhe ndyjm\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjen duke ia vrar\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen. <\/span><\/p>\n

Nuk e desha at\u00eb m\u00ebsim force demokracie prej tyre, por pavullnetsh\u00ebm e mora, dhe po aq e mpir\u00eb nga zhg\u00ebnjimi pse ende nuk po mundim, pyeta veten<\/span>: Ps<\/span>e m<\/span>a<\/span> f<\/span>ye<\/span>n<\/span> patriotizmi<\/span>n<\/span>?<\/span><\/p>\n

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Pranvera SHEHAJ T\u00eb m\u00ebkuar me legjendat e trim\u00ebris\u00eb, ato q\u00eb p\u00ebrshkojn\u00eb derivon\u00eb edhe flet\u00ebt e librave t\u00eb shkollimit m\u00eb shum\u00eb se normatdhe rregullat e nj\u00ebtrajtshm\u00ebris\u00eb shoq\u00ebrore, nuk ka sesi ne shqiptar\u00ebt t\u00eb mos rritemi e mbesim peng i ndjesive t\u00ebrr\u00ebnjosura n\u00eb n\u00ebnvet\u00ebdijen njer\u00ebzore si dashuria fataliste, urrejtja e pakthyeshme, hakmarrja e p\u00ebrbetuar, vet\u00ebflijimi n\u00ebem\u00ebr t\u00eb …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":107528,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-107527","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-editorial"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107527","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=107527"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107527\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":107531,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/107527\/revisions\/107531"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/107528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=107527"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=107527"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=107527"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}