{"id":153459,"date":"2026-09-14T08:27:29","date_gmt":"2026-09-14T08:27:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=153459"},"modified":"2026-09-14T08:27:29","modified_gmt":"2026-09-14T08:27:29","slug":"e-kam-inat-diten-e-pare-te-shkolles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/2026\/09\/14\/e-kam-inat-diten-e-pare-te-shkolles\/","title":{"rendered":"E kam \u201cinat\u201d dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Nga Lu\u00e7iano BO\u00c7I<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>E kam \u201cinat\u201d dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs!<br \/>\nPo, po e kam shum\u00eb \u201cinat\u201d!<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d se m\u00eb kujton magjin\u00eb e shkoll\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk e prek dot m\u00eb.<br \/>\nAt\u00eb m\u00ebngjesin q\u00eb niste q\u00eb n\u00eb dark\u00eb, me rrobat e b\u00ebra gati, me k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt pran\u00eb der\u00ebs dhe me \u00e7ant\u00ebn q\u00eb e hapje p\u00ebr t\u00eb disat\u00ebn her\u00eb, sikur librat mund t\u00eb largoheshin prej saj gjat\u00eb nat\u00ebs.<br \/>\nE kam inat, se disa gj\u00ebra i neglizhova me dashje dhe sot do t\u00eb doja t\u2019i jetoja me gjith\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen e bot\u00ebs. Nj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb m\u00ebsuesi q\u00eb m\u00eb dukej e gjat\u00eb. Nj\u00eb or\u00eb q\u00eb mezi prisja t\u00eb mbaronte. Nj\u00eb pushim q\u00eb e shp\u00ebrdorova, duke menduar p\u00ebr or\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Nj\u00eb shoqe s\u00eb cil\u00ebs nuk i thash\u00eb sa shum\u00eb ma zbukuronte dit\u00ebn.<br \/>\nAt\u00ebher\u00eb kishim aq shum\u00eb t\u00eb nes\u00ebrme p\u00ebrpara, sa na dukej se asgj\u00eb nuk kishte nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb thuhej sot.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d fillimin e shkoll\u00ebs p\u00ebr at\u00eb arom\u00ebn e librave t\u00eb rinj.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr at\u00eb zakonin p\u00ebr t\u2019i shfletuar t\u00eb gjith\u00eb q\u00eb dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb par\u00eb \u00e7do faqe, p\u00ebr t\u00eb lexuar ndonj\u00eb tregim n\u00eb mes dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb matur me sy sa i v\u00ebshtir\u00eb do t\u00eb ishte viti.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr emrin q\u00eb e shkruanim n\u00eb faqen e par\u00eb me nj\u00eb kujdes pothuajse solemn.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr fletoren e re, ku betoheshim se k\u00ebt\u00eb her\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kishte asnj\u00eb zhgarravin\u00eb.<br \/>\nBetimi zakonisht zgjaste m\u00eb pak se fletorja.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr bank\u00ebn q\u00eb duhej z\u00ebn\u00eb her\u00ebt dhe p\u00ebr vendin q\u00eb ruhej me \u00e7ant\u00eb. \u201cK\u00ebtu \u00ebsht\u00eb dikush!\u201d<br \/>\nEdhe kur ai dikushi ende nuk kishte dal\u00eb nga sht\u00ebpia.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr shoqen e shokun e bank\u00ebs, ose ngjitur, me t\u00eb cilin ndanim gom\u00ebn, lapsin, p\u00ebrgjigjen dhe, kur na zbulonin duke folur, krijonim nj\u00eb pafaj\u00ebsi t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb fytyr\u00eb.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr vij\u00ebn imagjinare n\u00eb mes t\u00eb bank\u00ebs, q\u00eb shpallej kufi i papreksh\u00ebm pas nj\u00eb z\u00ebnke dhe shkelej sapo duhej par\u00eb zgjidhja e ushtrimit.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr ato m\u00ebngjese, kur m\u00ebsuesja hapte regjistrin dhe klasa m\u00ebsonte t\u00eb mbante frym\u00ebn nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht. Gishti i tij zbriste mbi emra, nd\u00ebrsa ne p\u00ebrpiqeshim t\u00eb b\u00ebheshim t\u00eb paduksh\u00ebm. Shihnim fletoren me p\u00ebrqendrimin e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb kishin zbuluar papritur kuptimin e jet\u00ebs. Vet\u00ebm t\u00eb mos na takoheshin syt\u00eb.<br \/>\nDhe pik\u00ebrisht at\u00ebher\u00eb d\u00ebgjohej emri yt\u2026<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr rrug\u00ebn nga banka te d\u00ebrrasa e zez\u00eb, q\u00eb disa dit\u00eb ishte m\u00eb e gjata n\u00eb bot\u00eb.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr shkum\u00ebsin q\u00eb t\u00eb mbetej mes gishtave dhe p\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjigjen q\u00eb e dije nj\u00eb minut\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb, por q\u00eb, sapo ngriheshe, papritur vendoste t\u00eb t\u00eb braktiste. P\u00ebr p\u00ebshp\u00ebrim\u00ebn shp\u00ebtimtare nga banka e dyt\u00eb, aq t\u00eb ul\u00ebt sa nuk e d\u00ebgjoje ti dhe aq t\u00eb qart\u00eb sa e d\u00ebgjonte m\u00ebsuesi.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr at\u00eb \u201cmir\u00eb, ulu\u201d q\u00eb her\u00eb ting\u00ebllonte si shp\u00ebtim dhe her\u00eb si zhg\u00ebnjim q\u00eb e merrje me vete deri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb kapte kur nuk duhej. Mjaftonte nj\u00eb v\u00ebshtrim anash, nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb e shkruar n\u00eb cep t\u00eb fletores, nj\u00eb shprehje e shokut. Shtr\u00ebngoje buz\u00ebt, ulje kok\u00ebn, b\u00ebje sikur kolliteshe. Sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeshe ta ndaloje, aq m\u00eb e pamundur b\u00ebhej.<br \/>\n\u201cN\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur, na e thoni edhe neve.\u201d &#8211; d\u00ebgjohej m\u00ebsuesja.<br \/>\nPor si mund t\u2019ia shpjegoje m\u00ebsueses nj\u00eb gaz q\u00eb as vet\u00eb nuk e dije nga vinte?!Ishte mosha q\u00eb gjente nj\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7ar\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl n\u00eb seriozitetin e or\u00ebs dhe dilte prej andej duke qeshur.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr detyr\u00ebn q\u00eb e kishim \u201cb\u00ebr\u00eb\u201d, por fletoren, \u00e7udit\u00ebrisht, e kishim harruar n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi. P\u00ebr pes\u00eb minutat para m\u00ebsimit, kur nj\u00eb fletore e vetme ushqente me p\u00ebrgjigje gjysm\u00ebn e rreshtit.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr hartimin q\u00eb niste me guxim dhe p\u00ebrfundonte duke num\u00ebruar rreshtat. P\u00ebr vjersh\u00ebn q\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e thoshe pa u ndalur, nd\u00ebrsa p\u00ebrpara klas\u00ebs t\u00eb humbiste pik\u00ebrisht fjala q\u00eb lidhte gjith\u00eb strof\u00ebn.<br \/>\nSa shum\u00eb dram\u00eb kishte brenda nj\u00eb ore m\u00ebsimi?! Dhe sa pak duhej q\u00eb, n\u00eb pushim, gjith\u00e7ka t\u00eb harrohej.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr zilen. Sidomos p\u00ebr at\u00eb t\u00eb fundit, q\u00eb kishte nj\u00eb tingull krejt tjet\u00ebr nga t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb tjerat. P\u00ebr fjalin\u00eb \u201czilja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr mua\u201d, nd\u00ebrsa ne e kishim mbyllur \u00e7ant\u00ebn dhe nj\u00ebr\u00ebn k\u00ebmb\u00eb e kishim tashm\u00eb drejt der\u00ebs.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr oborrin q\u00eb mbushej p\u00ebrnj\u00ebher\u00ebsh me vrap, thirrje, buk\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb p\u00ebrgjysm\u00eb dhe plane q\u00eb duhej t\u00eb realizoheshin brenda dhjet\u00eb minutash.<br \/>\nAt\u00ebher\u00eb dhjet\u00eb minuta pushim na mjaftonin p\u00ebr kaq shum\u00eb jet\u00eb.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d edhe p\u00ebr at\u00eb vend n\u00eb klas\u00eb ku syt\u00eb shkonin vet\u00eb.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshje q\u00eb na e p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsonte dit\u00ebn m\u00eb shum\u00eb se nj\u00eb not\u00eb e mir\u00eb. P\u00ebr nj\u00eb laps t\u00eb k\u00ebrkuar hua pa qen\u00eb nevoja.<br \/>\nP\u00ebr nj\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb shkruar n\u00eb faqen e fundit dhe t\u00eb fshir\u00eb menj\u00ebher\u00eb, nga frika se mos dikush lexonte aty m\u00eb shum\u00eb nga \u00e7\u2019duhej.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d p\u00ebr rrug\u00ebn e kthimit q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb e zgjatnim kot. Ose q\u00eb sot mund ta pranojm\u00eb se nuk e zgjatnim kot.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d fillimin e shkoll\u00ebs se m\u00eb kujton se sa me padurim donim t\u00eb iknim prej saj.<br \/>\nPrisnim pushimet, fundin e vitit, klas\u00ebn e fundit. Rritja na dukej si nj\u00eb der\u00eb pas s\u00eb cil\u00ebs askush nuk do t\u00eb na k\u00ebrkonte m\u00eb llogari.<br \/>\nPastaj erdh\u00ebn dit\u00eb kur do t\u00eb donim t\u00eb kishim p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00eb m\u00ebsuese p\u00ebrpara, t\u00eb na d\u00ebgjonte deri n\u00eb fund dhe t\u00eb na thoshte: \u201cMendoje edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb. Ti e di.\u201d<br \/>\nSot e kuptoj ndryshe pesh\u00ebn e asaj fjalie. Brenda saj kishte besim. Dikush nuk dor\u00ebzohej p\u00ebr ne, edhe kur ne ishim gati t\u00eb dor\u00ebzoheshim p\u00ebrpara nj\u00eb ushtrimi.<br \/>\nKur e njeh shkoll\u00ebn edhe nga ana e m\u00ebsuesit, e kupton sa kujdes k\u00ebrkon ai besim.<br \/>\nNj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb mund ta harroj\u00eb shpjegimin, por e mban mend gjat\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si e ke par\u00eb kur ka gabuar.<br \/>\nE kujton n\u00ebse e ke turp\u00ebruar, apo i ke dh\u00ebn\u00eb kuraj\u00eb t\u00eb provoj\u00eb s\u00ebrish.<br \/>\nN\u00eb \u00e7do klas\u00eb ka nj\u00eb dor\u00eb q\u00eb ngrihet me siguri dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb mbetet p\u00ebrgjysm\u00eb. M\u00ebsuesit i duhet t\u2019i shoh\u00eb t\u00eb dyja.<br \/>\nPrandaj ky \u201cinat\u201d imi ka edhe nj\u00eb lutje p\u00ebr t\u00eb rriturit q\u00eb tashm\u00eb jetojn\u00eb me inatin-mall t\u00eb dit\u00eb s\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs.<br \/>\nT\u2019ua ruajm\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve d\u00ebshir\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb hyr\u00eb n\u00eb at\u00eb der\u00eb.<br \/>\nT\u00eb ken\u00eb vend p\u00ebr pyetjet, p\u00ebr gabimet, p\u00ebr talentet q\u00eb ende nuk din\u00eb t\u2019i tregojn\u00eb.<br \/>\nT\u00eb ken\u00eb kujtime t\u00eb bukura edhe ata q\u00eb nuk dalin t\u00eb par\u00ebt.<br \/>\nDhe kur t\u00eb kthehen n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, t\u00eb gjejn\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se t\u2019i pyes\u00eb p\u00ebr not\u00ebn, t\u2019i d\u00ebgjoj\u00eb si e kaluan dit\u00ebn.<br \/>\nE kam \u201cinat\u201d fillimin e shkoll\u00ebs, sepse \u00e7do shtator m\u00eb gjen pak m\u00eb larg atij oborri dhe po aq t\u00eb lidhur me t\u00eb. Mjafton nj\u00eb fotografi, nj\u00eb em\u00ebr shoqeje apo shoku, nj\u00eb z\u00eb f\u00ebmije q\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebrit m\u00ebsimin dhe larg\u00ebsia zhduket p\u00ebr nj\u00eb \u00e7ast.<br \/>\nPastaj shoh f\u00ebmij\u00ebt q\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb \u00e7antat gati dhe m\u00eb vjen t\u2019u them t\u00eb mos nxitohen kaq shum\u00eb.<br \/>\nT\u2019i jetojn\u00eb edhe ato or\u00ebt q\u00eb duken t\u00eb gjata.<br \/>\nT\u2019i ruajn\u00eb miq\u00ebsit\u00eb.<br \/>\nT\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb ndonj\u00eb fotografi, edhe kur u duket se s\u2019ka ndodhur asgj\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb.<br \/>\nSepse nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do ta k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb pik\u00ebrisht at\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq e zakonshme.<br \/>\nG\u00ebzuar fillimin e shkoll\u00ebs t\u00eb dashur f\u00ebmij\u00eb!<br \/>\nShkolla \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja m\u00eb e bukur q\u00eb ka krjuar njer\u00ebzimi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Lu\u00e7iano BO\u00c7I E kam \u201cinat\u201d dit\u00ebn e par\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs! Po, po e kam shum\u00eb \u201cinat\u201d! E kam \u201cinat\u201d se m\u00eb kujton magjin\u00eb e shkoll\u00ebs q\u00eb nuk e prek dot m\u00eb. At\u00eb m\u00ebngjesin q\u00eb niste q\u00eb n\u00eb dark\u00eb, me rrobat e b\u00ebra gati, me k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt pran\u00eb der\u00ebs dhe me \u00e7ant\u00ebn q\u00eb e hapje p\u00ebr &hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":153460,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-153459","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-editorial"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=153459"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153459\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":153462,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/153459\/revisions\/153462"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/153460"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=153459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=153459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=153459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}