{"id":154796,"date":"2026-09-26T08:39:00","date_gmt":"2026-09-26T08:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=154796"},"modified":"2026-09-26T08:39:00","modified_gmt":"2026-09-26T08:39:00","slug":"monologu-i-atyre-qe-i-ikin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/2026\/09\/26\/monologu-i-atyre-qe-i-ikin\/","title":{"rendered":"Monologu \u2026i atyre q\u00eb i ikin!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nga Haris VONGLI<\/strong><\/p>\n

Un\u00eb quhem Haris Vongli dhe kam ikur 3 her\u00eb nga Shqip\u00ebria.<\/p>\n

Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, isha vet\u00ebm __18_ vje\u00e7.<\/p>\n

Ika, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sistem arsimor m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit m\u00ebp\u00ebrcollen deri tek kufiri, n\u00eb aeroport. Nuk i pushuan lot\u00ebt, teksa m\u00eb shihnin me valixhe n\u00eb dor\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebr ta isha shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl \u2013 por m\u00eb tep\u00ebr, sepse ishin t\u00eb bindur q\u00eb nuk do kthehesha m\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Po un\u00eb u ktheva, edhe pse askush nuk e priste. Shoqet e mia iknin, un\u00eb u ktheva, me \u00ebndrr\u00ebn jo vet\u00ebm t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtoj nj\u00eb jet\u00eb por dhe t\u00eb luftoj p\u00ebr ta ndryshuar Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb qoft\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrmes politik\u00ebs. Por \u00ebndrrat shpejt ia lan\u00eb vendin zhg\u00ebnjimit. Nuk humba vet\u00ebm pun\u00ebn, por dhe shpres\u00ebn se di\u00e7ka mund t\u00eb ndryshonte. Ndaj vendosa t\u00eb iki p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. K\u00ebt\u00eb radh\u00eb, m\u00eb kishin vrar\u00eb t\u00eb sotmen. Ime m\u00eb, m\u00eb p\u00ebrcolli deri te dera: un\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebri me valixhe n\u00eb dor\u00eb.<\/p>\n

U arsimova dhe m\u00eb shum\u00eb, punova, k\u00ebrkova nj\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsonte Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb, por nuk ishte e leht\u00eb. Mendjen e kisha akoma k\u00ebtu, tek njer\u00ebzit e mi, tek vendi im. Dhe prap\u00eb, shpresa – ajo q\u00eb thon\u00eb se vdes e fundit – m\u00eb b\u00ebri t\u00eb rikthehem n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, k\u00ebt\u00eb radh\u00eb me \u00ebndrr\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb jet\u00eb akademike.<\/p>\n

Kur erdha, e gjeta Universitetin t\u00eb dergjur\u2026 Gjeta nj\u00eb munges\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb e prodhuar dije. K\u00ebrkova t\u00eb b\u00ebja nj\u00eb doktoratur\u00eb. Por nuk ma dhan\u00eb at\u00eb shans.<\/p>\n

Ik, m\u00eb tha mami me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb thyer, ik atje ku shanset ekzistojn\u00eb. Ndaj mora valixhen p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb tret\u00eb, e bindur q\u00eb shpres\u00ebn ma kishin vrar\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht.<\/p>\n

Tani jetoj n\u00eb Lond\u00ebr, mbrojta doktoratur\u00ebn nd\u00ebrsa kam dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00ebsim n\u00eb \u2018Glasgow Caledonian University\u2018 dhe tani n\u00eb \u2018Health Science University\u2018.<\/p>\n

Edhe sot pas shume vitesh, kur shoh pas, kuptoj q\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs e kam kaluar me valixhe n\u00eb dor\u00eb. N\u00ebp\u00ebr bot\u00eb kam takuar qindra shqiptar\u00eb si un\u00eb. Edhe ata e mbajn\u00eb kok\u00ebn pas. Me nj\u00eb dashuri t\u00eb madhe, e pamundur p\u00ebr tu kuptuar kur jeton k\u00ebtu \u2013 nj\u00eb dashuri p\u00ebrmalluese, gati mbyt\u00ebse, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb vend nga kemi ikur!<\/p>\n

Ne v\u00ebrtet ik\u00ebm, por jetojm\u00eb t\u00eb ndar\u00eb m\u00eb dysh: me zem\u00ebr e me mendje jemi edhe andej edhe k\u00ebtej \u2013 kemi mundim t\u00eb dyfisht\u00eb\u2026 kemi 2 sht\u00ebpi, kemi 2 familje, kemi dy histori, nj\u00eb jasht\u00eb e nj\u00eb brenda\u2026 dhe kemi mbetur varur, as andej e as k\u00ebtej.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb gjith\u00eb ne, do donim t\u00eb ktheheshim\u2026 p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontribuar k\u00ebtu. Me dijet, me personalitetin e integritetin ton\u00eb. Por, kur vijm\u00eb gjejn\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat probleme q\u00eb na kan\u00eb detyruar t\u00eb ikim. Dhe nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm hallet n\u00eb dukje t\u00eb \u201cvogla\u201d t\u00eb s\u00eb p\u00ebrdit\u00ebshmes: uji, dritat, \u00e7mimet, kanalizimet, shkollat e spitalet. Jo. S\u00ebmundja tashm\u00eb ka pushtuar krejt ngrehin\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Problemi nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb vet\u00ebm Rama q\u00eb ka kapur pushtetin si nj\u00eb pron\u00eb private\u2026<\/p>\n

Por, \u00ebsht\u00eb dhe ai tjetri q\u00eb ka kapur median\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai tjetri q\u00eb ka kapur sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsin\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai tjetri q\u00eb ka kapur sportin\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai q\u00eb ka kapur teatrin\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai q\u00eb ka kapur universitetin\u2026<\/p>\n

Ai q\u00eb ka kapur teknologjin\u00eb\u2026<\/p>\n

\u00c7do hallk\u00eb e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e kapur, si modeli i Ram\u00ebs. Me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb rrin\u00eb p\u00ebrjet\u00ebsisht n\u00eb krye t\u00eb \u00e7do sektori. Dhe qeverisin bashk\u00eb. Dhe na p\u00ebrjashtojn\u00eb, bashk\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Por, protestat\u2026<\/p>\n

Protestat\u2026<\/p>\n

Aty ku takoj t\u00ebr\u00eb ata q\u00eb i kam pas\u00eb takuar me valixhe n\u00eb duar n\u00eb dekadat e m\u00ebrgimit\u2026<\/p>\n

Kjo \u00ebnd\u00ebrr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri t\u00eb re\u2026<\/p>\n

Po m\u00eb bind t\u00eb kthehem dhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb t\u00eb kat\u00ebrt!<\/p>\n

Ne nuk duam t\u00eb kthejm\u00eb sindrom\u00ebn e vitit zero.<\/p>\n

Ne duhet t\u00eb kthejm\u00eb trurin. Kjo k\u00ebrkon nj\u00eb sakrific\u00eb. Shqip\u00ebria duhet t\u00eb rinohet. Kjo mend\u00ebsi mund t\u00eb zhb\u00ebhet vet\u00ebm n\u00ebse m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebt nga ne kthehen dhe vendosin ta ndryshojn\u00eb, bashk\u00eb me ata q\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb ikur akoma.<\/p>\n

Dhe ky \u00ebsht\u00eb shansi i fundit.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri tjet\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Jo m\u00eb vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr vete, por dhe p\u00ebr tim bir, Davidin. Dua q\u00eb im bir t\u00eb rritet prane njerezve te tij, me gjakun e vet; gjysh\u00ebrit, kushurinjt\u00eb, t\u00eb komunikoj\u00eb me ta n\u00eb shqip dhe mos e nd\u00ebrtoj\u00eb gjithashtu personalitetin e tij me valixhe n\u00ebp\u00ebr duar. Davidi duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb i qart\u00eb se ku p\u00ebrketdhe t\u00eb ndihet plot n\u00eb shpirt. N\u00eb tok\u00ebn e vet. Me diellin e vet.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga Haris VONGLI Un\u00eb quhem Haris Vongli dhe kam ikur 3 her\u00eb nga Shqip\u00ebria. Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, isha vet\u00ebm __18_ vje\u00e7. Ika, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sistem arsimor m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit m\u00ebp\u00ebrcollen deri tek kufiri, n\u00eb aeroport. Nuk i pushuan lot\u00ebt, teksa m\u00eb shihnin me valixhe n\u00eb dor\u00eb \u2013 p\u00ebr ta isha shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl \u2013 …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":154797,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-154796","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-editorial"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154796","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=154796"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154796\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":154799,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/154796\/revisions\/154799"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/154797"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=154796"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=154796"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=154796"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}