{"id":89753,"date":"2024-09-20T21:09:23","date_gmt":"2024-09-20T21:09:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=89753"},"modified":"2024-09-20T21:09:23","modified_gmt":"2024-09-20T21:09:23","slug":"ikja-e-gertit-dhe-sindroma-e-cunit-te-mire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/2024\/09\/20\/ikja-e-gertit-dhe-sindroma-e-cunit-te-mire\/","title":{"rendered":"Ikja e Gertit dhe sindroma e “\u00e7unit t\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ruben Avxhiu\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

E kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb vet\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb t\u00eb tronditjes komb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr vdekjen e parakohshme t\u00eb Gerti Bogdanit dhe parad\u00ebs p\u00ebrshkruese t\u00eb virtyteve personale t\u00eb k\u00ebtij djali t\u00eb ri:<\/p>\n

\u201cKur paska qen\u00eb kaq i mir\u00eb,<\/p>\n

Pse nuk e ka p\u00ebrdorur pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb e m\u00eb mir\u00eb shoq\u00ebria shqiptare?<\/p>\n

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Pse nuk i \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb mund\u00ebsi, m\u00eb shum\u00eb dukshm\u00ebri, m\u00eb shum\u00eb rol?<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Pse nuk jan\u00eb njer\u00ebzit si ai fytyra e opozit\u00ebs shqiptare apo fytyra e shtetit shqiptar, e institucioneve publike shqiptare?\u201d<\/p>\n

V\u00ebrtet q\u00eb politika dhe shoq\u00ebria shqiptare u bashkuan n\u00eb nj\u00eb kor n\u00eb vler\u00ebsimin e k\u00ebtij njeriu, t\u00eb provokuar sigurisht nga ikja e pakuptueshme dhe e parakohshme e nj\u00eb djali t\u00eb ri. Nga q\u00eb na kujtoi t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve se sa t\u00eb brisht\u00eb jemi. Se sa leht\u00ebsisht t\u00eb thyesh\u00ebm e t\u00eb larguesh\u00ebm nga kjo jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Do t\u00eb kishim qen\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb po t\u00eb ishte mbipesh\u00eb, apo i thar\u00eb nga uria, pijanec abuziv, I \u00e7thurrrur n\u00eb mos i mplakur, me probleme sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore e shenja paralajm\u00ebruese. Po Gerti nuk kishte asnj\u00eb nga k\u00ebto, duke na futur frik\u00ebn ne t\u00eb pathyeshm\u00ebve e t\u00eb pamposhturve, neve q\u00eb e dim\u00eb se vdekja \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ata q\u00eb e meritojn\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn si jetojn\u00eb e si sillen.<\/p>\n

Kishte edhe arsye t\u00eb qarta pse t\u00eb majt\u00eb e t\u00eb djatht\u00eb u bashkuan p\u00ebr ta kujtuar e p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb me dhimbje. Nuk ishte m\u00eb politikan aktiv. Kur kishte qen\u00eb nuk e kishte prishur goj\u00ebn. Nuk ishte treguar harbut. Kur e kishin larguar nuk kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb zhurm\u00eb, nuk kishte gjuajtur me gur\u00eb miqt\u00eb e aleat\u00ebt. E kishte pranuar m\u00ebnjanimin me dinjitet. Me qet\u00ebsin\u00eb e atij q\u00eb ka pasur dhe ende kishte rrug\u00eb t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kontribuar. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb till\u00eb m\u00ebnjanohen e hidhen leht\u00eb. Nuk t\u00eb vrasin. Nuk marrin hak. Jan\u00eb t\u00eb cunguar nga edukata dhe gjer\u00ebsia e mendjes dhe shpirtit.<\/p>\n

Problem \u00ebsht\u00eb kur i ke miq e t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, aleat dhe prij\u00ebs, se nuk b\u00ebjn\u00eb favore t\u00eb pamerituara. Edhe kur i meriton e ka v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb se duhet t\u2019u imponohet strukturave, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrleshet me zorzop\u00ebt dhe servil\u00ebt, me bullizuesit dhe hak\u00ebrryesit, me goj\u00ebprishurit e barbar\u00ebt q\u00eb popullojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn politike n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n

Ky lavd\u00ebrimi \u201c\u00e7un i mir\u00eb\u201d ka pasur historikisht n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri edhe ofendimin brenda, madje edhe p\u00ebrbuzjen. Ashtu t\u00eb n\u00ebnkuptuar. I atill\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm njeriu i virtytsh\u00ebm dhe i edukuar, i urt\u00eb dhe i kujdessh\u00ebm. \u00cbsht\u00eb edhe ai, i skartueshmi, i dhunueshmi, i harrueshmi. Ai p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin njer\u00ebzit me fjal\u00eb ia mbajn\u00eb an\u00ebn por jo me vepra. Ai q\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e l\u00ebn\u00eb pas n\u00ebse k\u00ebrc\u00ebnohen nga \u201cdjemt\u00eb e k\u00ebqinj\u201d t\u00eb \u00e7do kohe.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb fund, vlera e nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebrie matet pik\u00ebrisht nga kapaciteti dhe gatishm\u00ebria p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb vend djemve dhe vajzave t\u00eb nj\u00eb edukate dhe karakteri si ky q\u00eb duket se simbolizonte edhe Gerti Bogdani.<\/p>\n

Mbase politika nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb ende fusha ku njer\u00ebzit si Bogdani duhet t\u00eb drejtojn\u00eb potencialin e tyre. Por nga ana tjet\u00ebr, a ka fush\u00eb profesionale n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb diktatin e panevojsh\u00ebm dhe gryk\u00ebs t\u00eb politik\u00ebs? Nga skenat e koncerteve, te sallat shkencore, politika vigj\u00eblon, shp\u00ebrblen, dhe nd\u00ebshkon. \u00c7una e goca t\u00eb mira, t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebseardhur, sa koh\u00eb q\u00eb ulen n\u00eb cepin q\u00eb u caktojn\u00eb dhe zbukurojn\u00eb fasad\u00ebn, v\u00ebrtetojn\u00eb narrativ\u00ebn, dhe mbeten t\u00eb p\u00ebrthyesh\u00ebm, t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuesh\u00ebm, t\u00eb spostuessh\u00ebm. Rinia q\u00eb po ik\u00ebn? Truri q\u00eb po rrjedh jasht\u00eb? Jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha shqet\u00ebsime t\u00eb zbraz\u00ebta. Ikja e rinis\u00eb siguron munges\u00ebn e ndryshimit. P\u00ebr tru, n\u00ebse ka nj\u00eb vend ku i din\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha e nuk kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr sqarime \u00ebsht\u00eb Shqip\u00ebria. P\u00ebrkundrazi, n\u00ebse dikush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb i qart\u00eb p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb tem\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se n\u00eb \u00e7far\u00eb fushe, le t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Je kudo i rrethuar nga ekspert\u00eb.<\/p>\n

\u00cbsht\u00eb ironi e dhimbshme, por fakt, q\u00eb vdekja mizore v\u00ebrtet q\u00eb ia shkurtoi udh\u00ebtimin, ia shkretoi familjen dhe e mori p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo, p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment, n\u00eb syt\u00eb e gjith\u00eb vendit, ndri\u00e7oi mbi Gerti Bogdanin, ashtu si jeta nuk kishte mundur ta b\u00ebnte n\u00eb 44 vitet e saj. Tani ceremonit\u00eb mbaruan. Do t\u00eb kthehemi te e p\u00ebrditshmja jon\u00eb, ku mij\u00ebra t\u00eb rinj si Gerti \u00e7ojn\u00eb d\u00ebm potencialin e tyre n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri q\u00eb nuk di \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb me ta. T\u00eb cil\u00ebn ata vet\u00eb nuk gjejn\u00eb dot si ta ndihmojn\u00eb, si ta nxjerrin nga llumi i padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe akoma m\u00eb keq nga llumi i banalitetit.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ruben Avxhiu\u00a0 E kan\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb shum\u00eb vet\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb t\u00eb tronditjes komb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr vdekjen e parakohshme t\u00eb Gerti Bogdanit dhe parad\u00ebs p\u00ebrshkruese t\u00eb virtyteve personale t\u00eb k\u00ebtij djali t\u00eb ri: \u201cKur paska qen\u00eb kaq i mir\u00eb, Pse nuk e ka p\u00ebrdorur pak m\u00eb shum\u00eb e m\u00eb mir\u00eb shoq\u00ebria shqiptare? Pse nuk i \u00ebsht\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb m\u00eb …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":89754,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[44],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-89753","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-editorial"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89753","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=89753"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/89753\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89754"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=89753"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=89753"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=89753"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}