{"id":95800,"date":"2024-11-19T08:57:23","date_gmt":"2024-11-19T08:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/?p=95800"},"modified":"2024-11-19T08:57:23","modified_gmt":"2024-11-19T08:57:23","slug":"nje-tragjedi-qe-mund-te-perseritet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/2024\/11\/19\/nje-tragjedi-qe-mund-te-perseritet\/","title":{"rendered":"Nj\u00eb tragjedi q\u00eb mund t\u00eb p\u00ebrs\u00ebritet…"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nga\u00a0Lutfi DERVISHI<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngjarja tragjike e ndodhur n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn Fan Noli n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, ku nj\u00eb 14-vje\u00e7ar humbi jet\u00ebn dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mbeti i plagosur pas nj\u00eb sulmi brutal, ka tronditur shum\u00ebk\u00ebnd. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tragjedi e paralajm\u00ebruar. Ky akt dhune, kryer nga tre bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00eb t\u00eb viktim\u00ebs, nxjerr n\u00eb drit\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet t\u00eb hidhur: pasojat e r\u00ebnda t\u00eb konflikteve t\u00eb nisura dhe t\u00eb nxitura n\u00eb rrjetet sociale dhe dhun\u00ebn si model suksesi.<\/p>\n

Sipas raportimeve fillestare, motivi kryesor i krimit duket t\u00eb ket\u00eb qen\u00eb nj\u00eb sherr n\u00eb rrjetet sociale q\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebrshkall\u00ebzoi n\u00eb dhun\u00eb fizike. Brenda 90 sekondave, nj\u00eb \u201csherr\u201d virtual u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb \u00a0tragjedi. Ngjarja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb k\u00ebmban\u00eb alarmi p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb: familjen, shkoll\u00ebn, institucionet shtet\u00ebrore dhe vet\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Duhet pranuar se modeli i suksesit q\u00eb promovohet prej vitesh \u00ebsht\u00eb modeli i dhun\u00ebs: dhun\u00eb verbale, dhun\u00eb virutale, dhun\u00eb fizike. Dhuna q\u00eb gjenerohet n\u00eb rrjete sociale, promovohet n\u00eb median tradiconale dhe finalizohet me \u201ctop model\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb Kuvend dhe institucione<\/p>\n

Rastet e dhun\u00ebs ku p\u00ebrfshihen t\u00eb mitur nuk jan\u00eb t\u00eb reja. Kan\u00eb ndodhur dhe do t\u00eb ndodhin. Por mungesa e mbik\u00ebqyrjes dhe ndikimi i mediave sociale e ka b\u00ebr\u00eb situat\u00ebn edhe m\u00eb shqet\u00ebsuese. Mediat sociale, q\u00eb \u00a0jan\u00eb krijuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb bashk\u00eb njer\u00ebzit dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndar\u00eb informacion, po shnd\u00ebrrohen gjithnj\u00eb e m\u00eb shpesh n\u00eb platforma p\u00ebr ngacmime, bulizim, k\u00ebrc\u00ebnim dhe p\u00ebrshkall\u00ebzim konfliktesh.<\/p>\n

P\u00ebr nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb ende n\u00eb proces t\u00eb formimit emocional dhe social, konflikte t\u00eb tilla marrin p\u00ebrmasa dramatike. Nj\u00eb status, nj\u00eb foto, nj\u00eb koment i pamenduar ose nj\u00eb postim provokues mund t\u00eb nxis\u00eb zem\u00ebrime q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb nga ekrani n\u00eb rrug\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Ngjarja ku humbi jet\u00ebn 14 vje\u00e7ari ngre pyetje q\u00eb sot jan\u00eb retorike: \u00a0A jemi t\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegjsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr komunikimin dhe mjedisin e dhunsh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb cilin po jetojm\u00eb? A \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb mjaftuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb mbi menaxhimin e konflikteve? A jan\u00eb prind\u00ebrit dhe m\u00ebsuesit t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr ndikimin q\u00eb mediat sociale kan\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve?<\/p>\n

Detyra e shkoll\u00ebs sot nuk mund t\u00eb kufizohet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb dh\u00ebnien e dijeve akademike. Sot m\u00eb shum\u00eb se kurr\u00eb duhet folur p\u00ebr rrezikun e konfliktit dhe nevoj\u00ebn e komunikimit. N\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb, prind\u00ebrit duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb interesuar jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr jet\u00ebn reale, por edhe jet\u00ebn virtuale t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre.<\/p>\n

Ngjarja e sotme \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb nga shum\u00eb raste q\u00eb tregojn\u00eb se si d\u00ebshtimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb adresuar ndikimin e mediave sociale dhe mungesa e edukimit p\u00ebr t\u00eb menaxhuar emocionet dhe konfliktet mund t\u00eb sjellin pasoja fatale.<\/p>\n

Esht\u00eb urgjente nevoja e rritjes s\u00eb \u00a0nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimit p\u00ebr ngacmimin virtual.
\nShum\u00eb lajme jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb garanci jan\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb \u00a0p\u00ebr \u201cp\u00ebrfocimin e siguris\u00eb publike n\u00eb shkolla\u201d. Ngjarja e sotme tregon se \u00e7do propagand\u00eb nuk t\u00eb \u00e7on gjat\u00eb. Fjal\u00ebt bosh p\u00ebr \u201cpaketa sigurie\u201d n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, p\u00ebr memorandume dhe strategji sot ting\u00ebllojn\u00eb si tallje.<\/p>\n

Tragjedia n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb ngjarje e izoluar, por nj\u00eb simptom\u00eb e nj\u00eb problemi m\u00eb t\u00eb madh shoq\u00ebror. Q\u00eb shkollat t\u00eb mos shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb skena tragjedish, por t\u00eb jen\u00eb hap\u00ebsira p\u00ebr edukimin e brezit t\u00eb ri, debati duhet t\u00eb nis\u00eb sot.
\nMosveprimi sot mund t\u00eb kushtoj\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb tjera nes\u00ebr. Diskutimi p\u00ebr ndikimin e mediave sociale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb zgjedhje, por nj\u00eb domosdoshm\u00ebri.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nga\u00a0Lutfi DERVISHI Ngjarja tragjike e ndodhur n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn Fan Noli n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, ku nj\u00eb 14-vje\u00e7ar humbi jet\u00ebn dhe nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr mbeti i plagosur pas nj\u00eb sulmi brutal, ka tronditur shum\u00ebk\u00ebnd. Por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb tragjedi e paralajm\u00ebruar. Ky akt dhune, kryer nga tre bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00eb t\u00eb viktim\u00ebs, nxjerr n\u00eb drit\u00eb nj\u00eb realitet t\u00eb hidhur: pasojat e r\u00ebnda …<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":21097,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[37],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-95800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","","category-politike"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95800"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95800\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":95801,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95800\/revisions\/95801"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/21097"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/rdnews.al\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}